Thoughts

IS BEING POLITE SO DIFFICULT ?

May 31, 2015
I don’t know about you, but lately I realized quite often how impolite people have become nowadays. Everybody only cares about their own business without even looking up to say hi. It could be that it’s only common in Switzerland to say “grüezi” when passing by someone on the street (logically at busy places it would be too exhausting^^). However now, even looking at each other got rare. Just because we’re strangers to each other doesn’t mean that we have to ignore each other, does it?

A good example is traveling by bus: When in the past, it was normal to stand up and offer your place to older people, most of the young generation keeps sitting in this day and age. Seeing this gets me always quite angry and I kind of feel like an old grandma railing against the modern generation – even though I’m definitely not a grandma yet. So why is being polite so difficult? Standing up for elders, having eye contact on the street and saying hi to everybody doesn’t hurt anyone.

I think the fact politeness disappears more and more could be attributed to the individualization of our society and to the use of our smart phones everywhere and everytime. Either we look at the screen of our cell phone or only mind our way and don’t care about the people around because we don’t see any connection.

We see ourself as an individual and not as a part of a higher group – our society – to which all the others belong as well. However, the latter is the reality. We depend on our environment – not only meaning our friends and family – and it would be totally impossible to live the way we do without them. You shouldn’t just benefit from the salesgirls’ advices in the store and then ignore them on the street.

Additionally, politeness is way more then only behaving decent in the moment. If everybody would do so, our world would be a much friendlier place. It wouldn’t solve big problems logically but make our everyday life more pleasurable. And maybe we can even save lives by helping people who look sick or fall down – it can be hard to overcome yourself and be the first to give first aid but believe me, as soon as one starts, the others will follow.

But we should already start in the details: “A smile is the prettiest thing you can wear” – it’s true! By smiling at the people around you can give them some warmth and a little moment of happiness. And if they smile back, you’ll get that as well. Let’s start a countermovement against the egoism nowadays and bring politeness back: Say hi to strangers, smile at everyone, offer your place to elders and don’t hesitate to help – it will make all of us feel better!


Be polite – and get inspired!
 

 

NEW HAIR
WELCOME TO 2017

You Might Also Like

3 Comments

  • Reply Rimanere nella memoria May 31, 2015 at 21:48

    Nice Inspirations

    FOLLOW my Blog!!! Maybe we can follow each other!!!
    http://rimanerenellamemoria.blogspot.de

  • Reply Maria Polansky June 1, 2015 at 18:51

    This is a great post! I feel the same way about people in my city, and it even gets to the point where the only people who smile and talk to me are guys that are hitting on me so I just feel creeped out. I hope one day humans will learn to disconnect from their screens a bit to be more polite.

  • Reply Anova June 3, 2015 at 16:31

    Totally agree with you! thanks for reading, xo

  • Leave a Reply